You said it out loud. Now you don't have to go back to carrying it alone.
IVF over 40 is hard enough without doing it in silence. The IVF Sisterhood is where honest women hold each other through every phone call, every wait, and every next step.
I'm ready to stop doing this alone$29/month · Cancel anytime
Imagine the clinic calls with numbers you weren't hoping for — and within the hour, you've got a room full of women who actually understand what that number means.
Not a friend who says "just relax and it'll happen." Not a Google rabbit hole at midnight. Women who are 40-something, in the thick of it, and who will say "I know. Me too. Here's what helped me get through that week."
Inside the Sisterhood, you stop rehearsing "I'm fine" before every family dinner. You check in on a Tuesday morning and someone has already written the thing you couldn't put into words. You walk into your next appointment feeling a little steadier, because you're not walking in alone anymore.
That feeling you had during the workshop — the exhale, the "oh, it's not just me" — this is where it gets to keep going.
You've gotten really good at holding it together.
Why you're not drinking. Why you can't commit to that trip. Why you're "still trying." Every explanation costs you a little more.
You smile through the baby shower, then sit in the car for twenty minutes before you can drive home.
Success rates over 40. What a low AMH number means. Whether anyone else felt this way after a failed transfer.
"Maybe I waited too long. Maybe I don't deserve to want this this much."
Your partner, your mom, your friends. You keep the worst of it to yourself so nobody has to worry.
People love you. They just don't get it. And that gap feels wider every cycle.
Imagine if…
- You had somewhere to put the news — good, bad, or "still waiting" — the moment it happens.
- You could ask the question you're embarrassed to ask your doctor, and get honest answers from women who've lived it.
- Two-week waits felt less like solitary confinement and more like being held.
- You stopped apologizing for wanting this at 41, 43, 45.
- Your partner got a break from being your only emotional outlet — and you got a break from protecting them.
- You could talk about IVF without lowering your voice.
- Whatever your outcome, you'd look back and know you weren't alone for a single step of it.
"[Bold one-line result — e.g. what changed for her after joining]"
[Paste a real testimonial from a workshop attendee or member here. The strongest ones name a specific moment: a hard appointment, a two-week wait, a conversation they finally had.]— [First name], [age], [stage of journey] Placeholder — swap in a real quote before publishing
This is not another fertility Facebook group.
You've probably joined a few. Thousands of members, mostly 20-somethings, a stream of pregnancy announcements, and nobody who understands what IVF looks like after 40.
What you've tried
- Huge public groups where you'd never post the real stuff
- Forums full of conflicting advice and scary statistics
- Well-meaning friends who don't know what to say
- Keeping it all to yourself because it's easier
The IVF Sisterhood
- A private space, just for women 40+ navigating IVF
- Honest conversation — no toxic positivity, no judgment
- Regular check-ins so nobody slips through the cracks
- A place where every outcome and every feeling is welcome
The IVF Sisterhood
A private monthly membership for women 40+ navigating IVF who want honest support, real conversation, and a place to feel less alone.
A private community
A closed space where you can share what's actually happening — the numbers, the fears, the small wins — without worrying who's reading.
Ongoing support and encouragement
Women who show up for you on transfer day, retrieval day, and the days when you just can't. Support that doesn't run out after the first cycle.
Honest conversations about IVF over 40
The real questions, asked out loud. Age, egg quality, donor options, money, marriage, grief, hope — nothing is off the table.
Resources, reflections, and check-ins
Prompts and guidance to help you process each stage, so the feelings have somewhere to go instead of piling up inside.
A space where your journey doesn't have to live in the dark
Bring the part of your story you haven't told anyone else. Here, it's met with "me too," not silence.
$29/month
Less than $1 a day to stop carrying this by yourself.
Yes — I'm joining the SisterhoodCancel anytime. No long-term commitment.
IVF Sisterhood VIP
A 4-week live clarity circle for women who want a more intimate space to ask questions, process emotions, and feel supported in their next steps.
Some seasons need more than a community feed. Maybe you're deciding whether to do another round. Maybe you're weighing donor eggs. Maybe a recent result knocked the wind out of you and you need to talk — out loud, in real time, with women who get it.
VIP is a small, live circle for exactly that. Four weeks of showing up together, face to face, so you walk into your next decision with more clarity and a lot less weight on your chest.
- 4 weekly live calls — a dedicated hour each week to be heard and supported in real time
- Personal Q&A and support — bring your specific situation and get focused attention on it
- Replay access — can't make it live because of an appointment? You won't miss a thing
- Private check-in space — stay connected with your circle between calls
- Your first month of The IVF Sisterhood included — full membership access while you're in the circle
$297 for 4 weeks
Includes your first month of membership I want the live support of VIPHi, I'm [Your Name].
[Lead with your own lived experience: where you were in your IVF journey, how old you were, and what it felt like to go through it without the support you needed.]
[Share the moment you realized other women 40+ were carrying the same silence — maybe it was the IVF Out Loud Workshop itself.]
[Close with why the Sisterhood exists: so no woman over 40 has to do IVF in the dark.]
"I've already spent so much on IVF. Can I justify spending more on support?"
I hear you. When every cycle costs what it does, adding anything else can feel indulgent.
But think about what doing this alone is already costing you — the sleepless nights, the strain on your relationship, the way the stress follows you into work and into every appointment. Support isn't a luxury on top of IVF. It's what helps you get through it with yourself still intact.
And at $29 a month with no long-term commitment, you can try it for a month and decide for yourself.
You showed up to IVF Out Loud. You let yourself be seen. That took courage — and it tells me something about you.
You're not someone who's going to keep pretending she's fine. You're someone who knows she deserves support, honesty, and women who'll walk beside her — whatever the next chapter brings.
Your journey doesn't have to live in the dark.
Come into the light with us.
Frequently asked
Who is the IVF Sisterhood for?
Women 40+ who are considering, currently going through, or taking a break from IVF — and who want honest support from women in the same season of life.
What if I'm between cycles or not sure what's next?
You belong here. Some of the hardest moments are the in-between ones — deciding whether to try again, exploring other options, or just catching your breath. You don't need to be mid-cycle to join.
Is this medical advice?
No. The Sisterhood is a space for emotional support and honest conversation. It isn't a substitute for guidance from your fertility doctor or medical team.
Can I cancel the membership anytime?
Yes. The membership is month-to-month at $29, and you can cancel whenever you need to.
What's the difference between the membership and VIP?
The membership is ongoing community support, resources, and check-ins. VIP adds a 4-week live clarity circle: weekly live calls, personal Q&A, replays, and a private check-in space — plus your first month of membership is included.
What if I can't make the VIP calls live?
Every call is recorded, so you'll have replay access. Appointments come first — you won't fall behind.
Is it private?
Yes. The community is private and only open to members, so you can share honestly.